Autism and girls
Autism is more common in boys, but is often missed in girls.
Girls are often better at hiding their autism in public (this is called masking). So, they do not get diagnosed. This means they often miss out on support. Support can help them understand their challenges, build skills, and excel in school.
Autistic girls:
- are often described as quiet or shy
- have difficulty with social communication
- have trouble with their feelings when frustrated. They may be disruptive or not know how to handle their emotions
- are passionate about specific interests. For example, they may talk endlessly about a favourite TV show character, props, or actors. But, they know little or nothing about the show itself.
- are unusually sensitive to sensory challenges
- rely heavily on others to guide and speak for them
- have a hard time making or keeping friends.
If your daughter is of the age where she may be starting her period soon, see how you can support her.
Helpful resources
For more information about autism and girls, you can watch:
- My autism and me - a BBC video about Rosie, an autistic 13 year old takes viewers into her world to explain what it's like to grow up.
- Me and my autism - Ella shares her thoughts about her day to day life.
- Me, My Autism & I | Vanish & Ambitious about Autism - an advert showing Ash, who explains how familiar clothes can be a lifeline.
Or visit one of the following websites to find out more:
- National Autistic Society, defining what is autism in girls and women.
- Nasen, free resources to explain how girls often fly under the radar.
- Autism Awareness, resources to help support identification in women and girls.
- Autism Speaks, explaining the characteristics.