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What is a Family Group Conference?

  • Everyone has problems at school and at home from time to time. A Family Group Conference can be the start to helping you and your family sort things out.
  • Everyone in your family, other relatives and friends who care about you, meet together so they can all talk about what could happen in the future. Then they make a plan .

drawing of a busWho comes?

Your social worker , sometimes your foster carers , school staff and other people that work with your family

  • Sometimes someone may be invited along to provide information to you and your family
  • And of course your family are invited.

Who sorts the meeting out?

  • You will have your own " independent co-ordinator "
  • They are separate from your school staff and your social worker
  • They will come and talk to you and your family about the meeting and let you know what it could be like for you
  • Your family will help decide when and where the meeting is held
  • It may be held in your school or a place near your home
  • It isn't usually held in someone's home or in a social services building
  • And you won't have to sit round a big table with everyone staring at you.
  • The co-ordinator will welcome everyone.
  • Then your social worker , teacher or other professionals there will explain the difficulties you may be having at school or home and they will explain how they can help.
  • Then you and your family will have some time in private to talk it all over and to come up with a plan for your future.
  • There will be some food and drink for people to help themselves to.
  • At the end the plan is written down and agreed by everyone so they know what will happen next.

Do I have to go?

  • No, someone, called an advocate, can speak for you or you can tell us what you would like to say and we can say it for you
  • If you are able to go you can choose to stay and listen, or to be in a room nearby, for part or all of the meeting
  • Your brothers and sisters will be invited too
  • Perhaps you can invite a friend.

Have your say!

  • It is important that you have your say too
  • This may be hard for you though, so there are ways you can talk to your co-ordinator about it, so that you can be helped this way
  • You can make pictures, a tape of you speaking; a video or you can have an advocate to help you
  • This person can be a friend, relative, teacher or your co-ordinator can arrange for someone who is trained to help you have your say
  • Having a Family Group Conference is not a Magic Wand!
  • Everyone at the meeting - you, your family, and the professionals will have to try their best to make things work
  • Sometimes a second meeting (a follow-up ) in a few months time is a good way to check how it's been going for you.

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Contact us

General Enquiries to:
Kent Family Group Conference Service
County Office
Bishops Terrace
Bishops Way
Maidstone
ME14 1LA

Telephone 01622 772255
Envelope kentfgcenq
@kent.gov.uk