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Having your child adopted

image: hands Adoption provides a child with new legal parents and ends the legal relationship between the child and the birth parents.

Once granted, the adoption order is final and permanent, completely transferring legal parental responsibility from you to the adoptive parents. The child takes the surname of their adopters. When assessing an application for an adoption order, the Court will take many factors into account, including how other family members, including grandparents, will be affected if the order is granted. The Court will want to be sure that the adoption is in the best long-term interests of the child.


You may be considering having your child adopted

You may be a new parent who has not had the same support during your pregnancy and childbirth as other new parents. Those around you may not have known what to say as they were aware your child might be considered for adoption - or you may not have had anyone to talk with to help you decide if adoption is the right choice in your situation. We can help by providing independent counselling.


If adoption is seen as the best plan for your child, the adoption agency will start looking for a suitable new family. Wherever possible we will try to find a family of the same ethnic and cultural origin as your child and will consider your wishes about the child's religious upbringing. The adoptive parents will be fully assessed, with the needs of your child given priority, as part of a careful process before your child moves into the new home.


You may wish to meet the adoptive parents. You may decide to write a letter or send a photograph of yourself. The level and form of contact with your child after adoption will be discussed and will depend upon your child's needs. The adoptive parents will then apply to the Court for an adoption order and you will be asked to sign an agreement for your child to be adopted.


Do you disagree with the adoption?

You may be the parent of an older child or children who have been looked after by the local authority and for whom there is now an adoption plan with which you may or may not agree. You should obtain legal advice. You will also be offered counselling from the Kent Independent Service for Kinship and Adopters (KISKA).

If you wish to contest the adoption plan, your Citizens Advice Bureau should be able to put you in touch with a solicitor and you may be entitled to legal aid. The Court will ask an independent social worker to visit you. Their job is to safeguard your child's interests and so they will want you to explain why you disagree with the adoption plan so that your views can be reported to the Court. You will also have the chance to attend the Court hearing yourself, if you want to, and to state your objections. The Court will not make an adoption order unless it is sure it is in your child's best interests.

The Children Act 1989 asks social workers to explore the possibility of placing the child within the extended family if they cannot be cared for by the birth parent. In every decision the child's welfare is the first consideration.

Fostering or Adoption with Kent means there is always someone who cares

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